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You Are Deserving!

Do you feel deserving? To find the answer, listen to what you say to yourself.

Are you saying things like…

“Nothing works out for me” or “I tried that and it didn’t work?”

The way we live our life is consistent with our subconscious beliefs.
Whatever we choose now or later comes to us. So, it’s important
to be aware of what we ask for. We all have freedom to choose the
life we desire along with the obstacles that come with it.

And there will be obstacles. And when they come, we have two choices.
The first is what a lot of people do, and that is they view the obstacle
so BIG they can’t overcome it and at that moment their power to do
something leaves them. One of the reasons this happens is the subconscious
belief that they don’t deserve to succeed. This can stop people in their tracks.

The second choice is to see the obstacle for what it is and figure out ways
to overcome or get around it. This empowers us!

But, how do we get to the place where we make the second choice, overcoming
the obstacle? It starts in the mind. For instance, most people set some sort of goals
to be successful in life. But, these goals will have their own set of challenges.
This is when the self-talk kicks in with the doubt and now you feel you don’t
deserve to reach your goal. Therefore, we need to prepare the mind to receive
what we desire. Whatever comes must vibrate at the same vibration we are in
the mind. Change your mind and you will change your life!

To achieve the goals also requires repetition of action designed to prepare us
to receive. Through this repetition, we learn and develop into the person matching
the goal.

Ernest Holmes said, “Do the thing and the power is yours.” By changing the words,
thoughts and actions repeatedly to match our goals and what we choose to become,
we have empowered ourself.

The actions required could be some of the following:

1. Gaining conscious control over our thoughts, words and actions.
2. Reading books. (I personally read 2 or 3 books at a time, a few pages each daily.)
3. Taking classes.
4. Seeking out more knowledge through research.
5. Associating with like-minded people.

We know old habits have become embedded in us through repetition. Likewise,
we can develop new habits of thinking, feeling and doing through repetition. This in
turn gives us the “I deserve it” feeling and belief. Then we are free to choose the life we really desire!

{ 2 comments… add one }
  • Lynn September 8, 2010, 3:06 pm

    Great post, Carol! I am a firm believer in the law of attraction and I know how powerful our words and thoughts are. They literally shape our lives–determining our reality and destiny.

    One of my favorite quotes: “You get what you ask for whether you want it or not.” Not sure of it’s original author but Dr. Wayne Dyer uses it a lot.

  • Mavis Nong @ Attraction Marketing Online September 9, 2010, 6:35 am

    Hi Carol,

    Great, inspiring post. Our beliefs and thoughts influence our actions. It’s important to develop a positive mindset in order to achieve our goals.

    Thanks for sharing your insights.

    All the best,
    Mavis Nong

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